The space I aim to create when we’re together is one that is inviting, recharging, delicious. Uniquely ours.
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I’m happy you’re here, and I’d much rather be saying all of this in person. Though, I don’t typically talk THIS much at once unless prompted and then egged on.
What to tell? I suppose, as I sit here behind my keyboard, slightly bewildered at existing in the 21st century, a few things come to mind…
Why I Provide Companionship
– humanity’s relative insignificance within the universe
– the profound magic only found through deep connection with another person.
Your Inner Truth
(I promise, this is very relevant) we have our inner truths. Each one, a little string that pulls us out (either ever-so-slightly or by big leaping bounds, OUT) of the default and back into what feels true. Default mode network. Default habits that our brains have worn pathways for. Default lunch choice, app choice, choice of route to work, the specific way in which we choose to brush our teeth.
This begs the question of whether our default is a choice at all.
The demands and expectations of those around us (and that we put on ourselves) can constrain our inner truths if we aren’t extremely discerning and intentional. They can limit our choices such that we have fewer and fewer new and exciting experiences and ways to feel true.
After adolescence, time feels like a whole new force. The perception of this can be explained by the way we spend our days, especially if we’re not seeking out new experiences.
Let’s stop time for a moment.
What Else is There ?
You’ve found my website;) You already know all about choice amidst default, and I’ll be so bold as to suggest that you’ve arrived at a rare catalyst just by being here.
I’m here to help you be present. I’m here for us to explore your pleasure, joy, and creativity. NSFW is to now also stand for ‘Now Suitable For Wandering’ 😉
Wander with me.
A List of Likes
Here’s a list of things I like most, in no particular order. I hope this list helps you get to know me a bit better, and I can’t wait to hear about yours.
- Skiing
- Baths
- Wide open spaces
- Silk, cashmere, linen, cotton
- Short kings. (tall kings too)
- Cold plunging
- Torque
- Fine details on clothing
- Animals
- Cutting really very good paper snowflakes
- Things that are just— *made right*
- Lactobacillus
- Period-set films
- All very good wines, including port
- Trading knowing glances
- Good color palettes
- Marcona almonds
- Trip hop
- Symphonic metal
- Grunge and adjacencies
FAQ
You don’t show your face?
Not online. I can completely understand the desire to be sure you’re going to be attracted to a person before booking a date. We’re human, and facial features can hold a level of attraction.
I have petite and refined facial features. I have been told I’m beautiful across many contexts. A friend jokingly told me that if I revealed my face online—I’d need 10 phones to keep up with inquiries! My bet is that you will be pleasantly surprised when we meet.
I do offer thirty-minute social video calls and social coffee first-dates. See details on my dates page.
When will you visit x city?
The best way to ensure I’m in a certain city is to book an exclusive “Par Avion” date— a rendezvous just for us.
Alternatively, please visit my dates page for information about inspiring a tour to your city.
Do you drink or smoke?
I do have a drink occasionally, and when I do it’s bound to be a bourbon Manhattan. However, if you don’t drink I will choose not to— matching wavelengths and being present is what brings me the most joy of all.
I’ll have a cigarette about twice a year, and will share a cigar when the opportunity arises. Marijuana doesn’t agree with me.